IDE: Fix missing highlighted element in diagrams when using GTK3

- wx's logical function does not work on gtk3, and highlighting relies on it
- skipping logical funciion at all "works" but this now makes highlight opaque
- no easy fix for highlight transparency since emulated with AND Wx logical function
+ added other highlight related cosmetic fix.

Title,Ingredient A,Ingredient B,Ingredient C,Ingredient D,Ingredient E,Ingredient F,Ingredient G
Recipe 1,1,2,3,4,5,6,7
Recipe 2,2,3,4,5,6,7,8
Recipe 3,3,4,5,6,7,8,9
Recipe 4,4,5,6,7,8,9,10
Recipe 5,5,6,7,8,9,10,11
Recipe 6,6,7,8,9,10,11,12
Recipe 7,7,8,9,10,11,12,13