automatically detect flags supported by matiec and find correct path
for matiec C library files

This makes possible to use an old matiec and the new one.

fix bug that appears if datatype in the project tree is renamed to wrong name (keyword, existend type,...)

Traceback (most recent call last):
File "/usr/lib/python2.7/dist-packages/wx-3.0-gtk2/wx/_core.py", line 16765, in <lambda>
lambda event: event.callable(*event.args, **event.kw) )
File "/usr/lib/python2.7/dist-packages/wx-3.0-gtk2/wx/lib/expando.py", line 126, in _adjustCtrl
numLines = self.GetNumberOfLines()
File "/usr/lib/python2.7/dist-packages/wx-3.0-gtk2/wx/_core.py", line 16710, in __getattr__
raise PyDeadObjectError(self.attrStr % self._name)
PyDeadObjectError: The C++ part of the TreeTextCtrl object has been deleted, attribute access no longer allowed.